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THERE IS AN SONG FROM THE 80’s THAT SAID THIS EXACTLY. “HE WANTS HER, BUT SHE WANTS HIM & HE WANTS SOMEONE ELSE YOU JUST CANT WIN”. BUT TO FIND A TRUE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP & LOVE WE NEED TO LEARN TO FIND LOVE WITH THE PERSON WHO WANTS US. OR WOULD FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE. SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE CONSISTENT IN YOU ARE THE PERSON THAT THEY WANT, PERIOD.  MANY TIMES WE WANT WHO WE WANT & WE SAY WE’RE NOT GOING TO SETTLE. BUT SETTLING WOULD BE GOING FOR A PERSON WHO TREATS YOU BADLY, NOT SOMEONE WHO WOULD GIVE YOU THE WORLD. YES YOU NEED CHEMISTRY BUT IT WOULD BE HEALTHIER IN THE LONG RUN TO LOVE A PERSON WHO’S CRAZY ABOUT YOU. OPEN YOUR HEART & EYES TO ALL OPTIONS. THE PERSON YOU NEED MAY BE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, OR RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER.  STOP CHASING A PERSON WHO DOESN’T WANT YOU. LOVE IS NOT A GAME OF TAG. IT’S REAL WITH FEELINGS & DON’T YOU WANT TO BE LOVED & TREATED LIKE YOU SHOULD? STOP CHASING A DREAM & START LOVING WHAT COULD BE REALITY, A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

THERE IS AN SONG FROM THE 80’s THAT SAID THIS EXACTLY. “HE WANTS HER, BUT SHE WANTS HIM & HE WANTS SOMEONE ELSE YOU JUST CANT WIN”. BUT TO FIND A TRUE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP & LOVE WE NEED TO LEARN TO FIND LOVE WITH THE PERSON WHO WANTS US. OR WOULD FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE. SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE CONSISTENT IN YOU ARE THE PERSON THAT THEY WANT, PERIOD. MANY TIMES WE WANT WHO WE WANT & WE SAY WE’RE NOT GOING TO SETTLE. BUT SETTLING WOULD BE GOING FOR A PERSON WHO TREATS YOU BADLY, NOT SOMEONE WHO WOULD GIVE YOU THE WORLD. YES YOU NEED CHEMISTRY BUT IT WOULD BE HEALTHIER IN THE LONG RUN TO LOVE A PERSON WHO’S CRAZY ABOUT YOU. OPEN YOUR HEART & EYES TO ALL OPTIONS. THE PERSON YOU NEED MAY BE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, OR RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER. STOP CHASING A PERSON WHO DOESN’T WANT YOU. LOVE IS NOT A GAME OF TAG. IT’S REAL WITH FEELINGS & DON’T YOU WANT TO BE LOVED & TREATED LIKE YOU SHOULD? STOP CHASING A DREAM & START LOVING WHAT COULD BE REALITY, A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

YOU BREAK UP,  HAVE A FIGHT OR MAYBE YOU’RE JUST CONFUSED WITH WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP. WHAT’S GOING ON IN THEIR HEAD. ALL YOU KNOW IS YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT. KEEP IT SIMPLE. IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU NEED TO GET THE F*CK OUT. WHY YOU ASK? BECAUSE LOVE….LOVE YOU FEEL, PERIOD! #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships

YOU BREAK UP, HAVE A FIGHT OR MAYBE YOU’RE JUST CONFUSED WITH WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP. WHAT’S GOING ON IN THEIR HEAD. ALL YOU KNOW IS YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT. KEEP IT SIMPLE. IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHAT THE F*CK IS GOING ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU NEED TO GET THE F*CK OUT. WHY YOU ASK? BECAUSE LOVE….LOVE YOU FEEL, PERIOD! #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships

THIS IS FOR ALL GUYS TO MAKE ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP’S YOU HAVE SMOOTHER. IF YOU ARE NOT FEELING A GIRL & YOU KNOW THEY ARE FEELING YOU. SHHH…DON’T SAY A WORD. ANYTHING YOU SAY GIRLS HOLD ONTO IT & TO THEM IT MEANS WAY MORE. IT MEANS THERE IS A CHANCE FOR YOU 2. IF YOU MAKE EXCUSES GIRLS THINK THERE IS A CHANCE. ANYTHING & EVERYTHING YOU SAY MAKES GIRLS BELIEVE THERE IS A CHANCE. SO THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GO AWAY. GIRLS IF A GUY IS NOT TALKING TO YOU & BASICALLY IT’S ALL YOU, CHANCES ARE THEY ARE NOT INTO YOU & LET IT GO. NO NEED TO ASK WHAT ANYTHING MEANS BECAUSE IF THEY WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEY WILL & YOU BETTER BELIEVE YOU’LL KNOW IT. SO GUY’S ONCE AGAIN SHHH…DON’T SAY A WORD!  #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart

THIS IS FOR ALL GUYS TO MAKE ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP’S YOU HAVE SMOOTHER. IF YOU ARE NOT FEELING A GIRL & YOU KNOW THEY ARE FEELING YOU. SHHH…DON’T SAY A WORD. ANYTHING YOU SAY GIRLS HOLD ONTO IT & TO THEM IT MEANS WAY MORE. IT MEANS THERE IS A CHANCE FOR YOU 2. IF YOU MAKE EXCUSES GIRLS THINK THERE IS A CHANCE. ANYTHING & EVERYTHING YOU SAY MAKES GIRLS BELIEVE THERE IS A CHANCE. SO THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GO AWAY. GIRLS IF A GUY IS NOT TALKING TO YOU & BASICALLY IT’S ALL YOU, CHANCES ARE THEY ARE NOT INTO YOU & LET IT GO. NO NEED TO ASK WHAT ANYTHING MEANS BECAUSE IF THEY WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEY WILL & YOU BETTER BELIEVE YOU’LL KNOW IT. SO GUY’S ONCE AGAIN SHHH…DON’T SAY A WORD! #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart

ONE THING THAT I KEEP IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT I EVER HAD IS TO ALWAYS HAVE FUN & LAUGHTER WITH MY PARTNER. MANY COUPLES STOP THE SILLY GOOFY THINGS THAT YOU ONCE HAD & GET TOO SERIOUS. YOU NEED TO HAVE THE WANT IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO SURVIVE. THE WANT TO SEE EACH OTHER. THE WANT TO SPEND TIME TOGETHER, TO HOLD YOU, KISS YOU & THE LIST GOES ON. BUT CREATING IT IS NECESSARY. SO HAVE FUN.ENJOY ONE ANOTHER & TREAT YOUR PARTNER AS A BEST FRIEND. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY SHOULD BE. THE NAGGING, BITCHING & FIGHTING SOMETIMES CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. SO CHOOSE YOU FIGHTS & BICKERING TO A MINIMUM. WHEN YOU DO HAVE A GRIPE,  SAY IT ONCE & LET IT GO. IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE YOUR PARTNER. LOVE THEM & LET THINGS BE AS THEY WILL. IF THEY CARE THEY’LL HEAR EVERY WORD THAT YOU SAY.  #loveyourself #life #happines  #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #laugh #fun #we #couple #barbarajeannerelationships

ONE THING THAT I KEEP IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT I EVER HAD IS TO ALWAYS HAVE FUN & LAUGHTER WITH MY PARTNER. MANY COUPLES STOP THE SILLY GOOFY THINGS THAT YOU ONCE HAD & GET TOO SERIOUS. YOU NEED TO HAVE THE WANT IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO SURVIVE. THE WANT TO SEE EACH OTHER. THE WANT TO SPEND TIME TOGETHER, TO HOLD YOU, KISS YOU & THE LIST GOES ON. BUT CREATING IT IS NECESSARY. SO HAVE FUN.ENJOY ONE ANOTHER & TREAT YOUR PARTNER AS A BEST FRIEND. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY SHOULD BE. THE NAGGING, BITCHING & FIGHTING SOMETIMES CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. SO CHOOSE YOU FIGHTS & BICKERING TO A MINIMUM. WHEN YOU DO HAVE A GRIPE, SAY IT ONCE & LET IT GO. IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE YOUR PARTNER. LOVE THEM & LET THINGS BE AS THEY WILL. IF THEY CARE THEY’LL HEAR EVERY WORD THAT YOU SAY. #loveyourself #life #happines #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #laugh #fun #we #couple #barbarajeannerelationships

WHY IS IT NOW A DAYS MANY PEOPLE FIND IT SO HARD TO COMMIT. THEY WANT TO KEEP THINGS AT BAY. THEY MAY WANT YOU THERE BUT JUST NOT “THE YOU & ME FOREVER. SO IT MAY BE A BOOTY CALL. OR A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP. WHERE THEY SEE YOU OCCASIONALLY. BUT WHAT THIS REALLY DOES IT GIVES THEM WHAT THEY WANT. SOME TLC & SEX. SO WHY WOULD THEY HAVE TO COMMIT.  ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE. GIVING THEM VARIETY. HAVE MORE PRIDE. HAVE MORE SELF WORTH FOR YOURSELF. HOW TO GET A PERSON IS LAUGH, HAVE A BLAST. BECOME BESTS FRIENDS & WANT THAT COMMITMENT EVEN IF IT’S NOT FOREVER.  KNOW THAT WHILE YOU ARE DIGGING THEM THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE. BECAUSE TO ME COMMUNITY SEX WHERE YOUR HAVING SEX WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE THEN BACK TO ME. THAT iS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. DON’T BE AN OPTION. WHILE YOUR RELATIONSHIP DOES LAST. #loveyourself #life #love #laugh #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships

WHY IS IT NOW A DAYS MANY PEOPLE FIND IT SO HARD TO COMMIT. THEY WANT TO KEEP THINGS AT BAY. THEY MAY WANT YOU THERE BUT JUST NOT “THE YOU & ME FOREVER. SO IT MAY BE A BOOTY CALL. OR A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP. WHERE THEY SEE YOU OCCASIONALLY. BUT WHAT THIS REALLY DOES IT GIVES THEM WHAT THEY WANT. SOME TLC & SEX. SO WHY WOULD THEY HAVE TO COMMIT. ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE. GIVING THEM VARIETY. HAVE MORE PRIDE. HAVE MORE SELF WORTH FOR YOURSELF. HOW TO GET A PERSON IS LAUGH, HAVE A BLAST. BECOME BESTS FRIENDS & WANT THAT COMMITMENT EVEN IF IT’S NOT FOREVER. KNOW THAT WHILE YOU ARE DIGGING THEM THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE. BECAUSE TO ME COMMUNITY SEX WHERE YOUR HAVING SEX WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE THEN BACK TO ME. THAT iS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. DON’T BE AN OPTION. WHILE YOUR RELATIONSHIP DOES LAST. #loveyourself #life #love #laugh #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships

THIS TO ME IS ONE OF LIFE’S GREATEST FEELINGS. THAT MOMENT WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE BOTH FALLEN IN LOVE. IT’S EVEN GREATER WHEN YOU HEAR “I LOVE YOU FROM THIS PERSON WHOM YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH. THAT CONNECTION THAT THE PERSON WHO YOU LOVE HOLDS YOU DEAR & NEAR TO THEIR HEART. THIS FEELING IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. BUT HOW CAN WE KEEP THIS FEELINGS FROM CHANGING? YOU HAVE TO MAINTAIN & ACT WHO YOU ARE WHEN YOU TWO MET. YOU NEED TO GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO LAUGH & STAY BEST FRIENDS. THIS GIVES YOU A GREATER CHANCE TO SUCCEED. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship

THIS TO ME IS ONE OF LIFE’S GREATEST FEELINGS. THAT MOMENT WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE BOTH FALLEN IN LOVE. IT’S EVEN GREATER WHEN YOU HEAR “I LOVE YOU FROM THIS PERSON WHOM YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH. THAT CONNECTION THAT THE PERSON WHO YOU LOVE HOLDS YOU DEAR & NEAR TO THEIR HEART. THIS FEELING IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. BUT HOW CAN WE KEEP THIS FEELINGS FROM CHANGING? YOU HAVE TO MAINTAIN & ACT WHO YOU ARE WHEN YOU TWO MET. YOU NEED TO GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO LAUGH & STAY BEST FRIENDS. THIS GIVES YOU A GREATER CHANCE TO SUCCEED. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship

WE KNOW WHEN WE FIRST MEET & BECOME A COUPLE THINGS ARE  ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. YOU COULDN’T GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER. HERE WE ARE DOWN THE LINE. YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS CHANGED DRASTICALLY. THE CLOSENESS YOU FEET IS NO LONGER. YOU FEEL LITTLE CARE FROM YOUR PARTNER. THAT FEELING OF ALWAYS & FOREVER IS NO MORE. WHAT DO WE DO? MOST DESPERATELY TRY TO HOLD ON. WE WILL DO ANYTHING & EVERYTHING TO GET WHAT YOU HAD BACK. BUT ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE TRYING? IF SO WHAT ARE YOU HOLDING ON TO? ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS TO DO IS LET GO. BUT YOU CAN’T BE THE ONLY ONE TRYING TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK. CHANGE IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS. LOSING THE ONE WHO YOU LOVED TREMENDOUSLY IS EXTREMELY HARD. BUT YOU CAN’T FIGHT FOR A PERSON WHO DOESN’T WANT TO BE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. LET IT GO. HELL YEAH IT HURTS.  BUT AREN’T YOU ALREADY HURTING BY NOT BEING LOVE? LET IT GO.#loveyourself #guy #girl #heart #counselor #advice #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships

WE KNOW WHEN WE FIRST MEET & BECOME A COUPLE THINGS ARE ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. YOU COULDN’T GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER. HERE WE ARE DOWN THE LINE. YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS CHANGED DRASTICALLY. THE CLOSENESS YOU FEET IS NO LONGER. YOU FEEL LITTLE CARE FROM YOUR PARTNER. THAT FEELING OF ALWAYS & FOREVER IS NO MORE. WHAT DO WE DO? MOST DESPERATELY TRY TO HOLD ON. WE WILL DO ANYTHING & EVERYTHING TO GET WHAT YOU HAD BACK. BUT ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE TRYING? IF SO WHAT ARE YOU HOLDING ON TO? ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS TO DO IS LET GO. BUT YOU CAN’T BE THE ONLY ONE TRYING TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK. CHANGE IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS. LOSING THE ONE WHO YOU LOVED TREMENDOUSLY IS EXTREMELY HARD. BUT YOU CAN’T FIGHT FOR A PERSON WHO DOESN’T WANT TO BE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. LET IT GO. HELL YEAH IT HURTS. BUT AREN’T YOU ALREADY HURTING BY NOT BEING LOVE? LET IT GO.#loveyourself #guy #girl #heart #counselor #advice #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships

HOW IS IT WE PASS MANY PEOPLE EVERY DAY WITH NO CONNECTION. WE MEET PEOPLE ONLINE WITH NO CONNECTION. IF WE DO MEET YOUR ONLINE INTEREST MOST OF THE TIME THERE IS NO CONNECTION. YET WHY IS IT WHEN WE SEE THAT SPECIAL PERSON SMILE AT US ACROSS THE ROOM YOU FEEL THE CONNECTION? I ONCE SAW A GUY ON A DATE ACROSS THE BAR DURING FOOTBALL SEASON. THE LIGHTS WERE BRIGHT & HE KEPT SMILING AT ME. BUT SADLY I LEFT. ON A DIFFERENT NIGHT I WAS OUT & A GUY CAME TO EAT IN A PUB & SAT IN THE STOOL NEXT TO ME. HE WAS EATING WHEN I TURNED TO HIM & HE SAID OMG I WENT TO THAT BAR WHERE I FIRST SAW YOU LOOKING FOR YOU.  IT WAS DEAD SO I CAME HERE & YOUR HERE. YOU ARE. WE WERE TOGETHER 6 YEARS. YEAH THAT’S THE SAD PART PEOPLE CHANGE, SHIT HAPPENS, THAT SHIT IS CALLED LIFE. FORGIVE MY FRENCH. #loveyourself #love #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #relationship

HOW IS IT WE PASS MANY PEOPLE EVERY DAY WITH NO CONNECTION. WE MEET PEOPLE ONLINE WITH NO CONNECTION. IF WE DO MEET YOUR ONLINE INTEREST MOST OF THE TIME THERE IS NO CONNECTION. YET WHY IS IT WHEN WE SEE THAT SPECIAL PERSON SMILE AT US ACROSS THE ROOM YOU FEEL THE CONNECTION? I ONCE SAW A GUY ON A DATE ACROSS THE BAR DURING FOOTBALL SEASON. THE LIGHTS WERE BRIGHT & HE KEPT SMILING AT ME. BUT SADLY I LEFT. ON A DIFFERENT NIGHT I WAS OUT & A GUY CAME TO EAT IN A PUB & SAT IN THE STOOL NEXT TO ME. HE WAS EATING WHEN I TURNED TO HIM & HE SAID OMG I WENT TO THAT BAR WHERE I FIRST SAW YOU LOOKING FOR YOU. IT WAS DEAD SO I CAME HERE & YOUR HERE. YOU ARE. WE WERE TOGETHER 6 YEARS. YEAH THAT’S THE SAD PART PEOPLE CHANGE, SHIT HAPPENS, THAT SHIT IS CALLED LIFE. FORGIVE MY FRENCH. #loveyourself #love #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #relationship

GIRLS WE NEED TO LIGHTEN UP IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS. WE’RE A BUNDLE OF FUN WHEN YOU FIRST MEET YOUR PARTNER. BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE GIRLS BECOME A NAG, A MOM & LOSE THE FRIENDSHIP THAT EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS. A GUY WILL HAVE THE WANT TO BE AROUND YOU IF THEY KNOW YOU ARE THEIR PARTNER & NOT GOING TO SCOLDED. TREATING THEM AS A CHILD INSTEAD OF A GROWN UP WILL EVENTUALLY BACK FIRE. YOU AREN’T HERE TO MOLD OR CHANGE YOUR PARTNER, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THAT MEANS YOU ARE A COUPLE.& DO KNOW YOU GET MORE WITH SOFTNESS THEN ACTING LIKE YOU’RE A BOSS. SO PUT AWAY THE BROOMSTICK & HAVE A NIGHT OF LAUGHTER & FUN iT DOES WONDERS FOR A RELATIONSHIP. OF COURSE YOU WILL HAVE DISAGREEMENTS BUT HOW YOU HANDLE IT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #relationship #forever #fun #laugh

GIRLS WE NEED TO LIGHTEN UP IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS. WE’RE A BUNDLE OF FUN WHEN YOU FIRST MEET YOUR PARTNER. BUT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE GIRLS BECOME A NAG, A MOM & LOSE THE FRIENDSHIP THAT EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS. A GUY WILL HAVE THE WANT TO BE AROUND YOU IF THEY KNOW YOU ARE THEIR PARTNER & NOT GOING TO SCOLDED. TREATING THEM AS A CHILD INSTEAD OF A GROWN UP WILL EVENTUALLY BACK FIRE. YOU AREN’T HERE TO MOLD OR CHANGE YOUR PARTNER, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. THAT MEANS YOU ARE A COUPLE.& DO KNOW YOU GET MORE WITH SOFTNESS THEN ACTING LIKE YOU’RE A BOSS. SO PUT AWAY THE BROOMSTICK & HAVE A NIGHT OF LAUGHTER & FUN iT DOES WONDERS FOR A RELATIONSHIP. OF COURSE YOU WILL HAVE DISAGREEMENTS BUT HOW YOU HANDLE IT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #relationship #forever #fun #laugh