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Have fun when you are intimate with your partner, the connection of touch is so healthy and needed for a relationship

Have fun when you are intimate with your partner, the connection of touch is so healthy and needed for a relationship

When we first feel those feelings of love with a boy or girl in grammar school maybe high school or maybe it could of been kindergarten, we feel something but I’m not sure exactly we all know what it is. But as we get older we know that it’s love. Being young many call it puppy love but I say that it’s the purest of love because that love is not tainted. And yes I believe love is love. Why? We know that we love our parents we know that we love our sister’s, brother’s and grandparents, so we know that love is something that makes us feel good, feel special. We find that certain person that we may want to kiss or touch. We know that its something different, something special, something like love. As we grow and get older and feel pain and hurt from a break up. Pain from love not returned or pain of wanting someone that’s unreachable we begin to become tainted. But love feels amazing and we know this so although we have had our hearts broken countless times we continue to search and find the love of our life. After so many times of being hurt we’ve come to realize that loving a person is just not enough. So do we just not love or do we learn what it takes to keep a person. What it takes to hold on to a relationship. And what we find is by doing this the love that we have doesn’t die, it grows because we took time to learn about the person we love. We learn what it takes to keep their hearts where they should be right next to yours. And when you take time to do this. You will be able to have a loving, long lasting, always and forever relationship.

When we first feel those feelings of love with a boy or girl in grammar school maybe high school or maybe it could of been kindergarten, we feel something but I’m not sure exactly we all know what it is. But as we get older we know that it’s love. Being young many call it puppy love but I say that it’s the purest of love because that love is not tainted. And yes I believe love is love. Why? We know that we love our parents we know that we love our sister’s, brother’s and grandparents, so we know that love is something that makes us feel good, feel special. We find that certain person that we may want to kiss or touch. We know that its something different, something special, something like love. As we grow and get older and feel pain and hurt from a break up. Pain from love not returned or pain of wanting someone that’s unreachable we begin to become tainted. But love feels amazing and we know this so although we have had our hearts broken countless times we continue to search and find the love of our life. After so many times of being hurt we’ve come to realize that loving a person is just not enough. So do we just not love or do we learn what it takes to keep a person. What it takes to hold on to a relationship. And what we find is by doing this the love that we have doesn’t die, it grows because we took time to learn about the person we love. We learn what it takes to keep their hearts where they should be right next to yours. And when you take time to do this. You will be able to have a loving, long lasting, always and forever relationship.

MANY COUPLES CAN’T EVEN LAST THE HONEYMOON PERIOD OF THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE WE EXPECT THE PERSON TO BE CLOSE TO WHAT WE THINK IS PERFECT TO WHAT WE WANT. GUYS DON’T WANT A GIRL THAT NAGS OR TELLS THEM WANT TO DO. AS WELL AS THEY WANT TO FEEL THE NEWNESS OF HOW THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED. WHEN THINGS START TO CHANGE MANY GUYS BAIL. AND GIRLS LOOK AT WHAT’S CLOSE TO PERFECT IN THEIR EYES & MANY DON’T KNOW HOW OR WHAT EXACTLY IT IS THAT KEEPS THE GUY.  SO IF GUYS LOOK FOR A GIRL THAT BASICALLY DOES EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS & HOW HE WANTS TO  TREAT HER, WHEN YOU DO GET HER EVENTUALLY YOU’LL GET BORED & WILL WANT A GIRL MORE SIMULATING. AND THOSE GIRLS THAT SAY THEY AREN’T GOING TO SETTLE, YOU MAY BE WAITING FOR A VERY LONG TIME. SO WHAT IS IT THAT WILL HELP GET GUYS & GIRLS BACK ON THE SAME PAGE? LEARN. LOOK AT COUPLES THAT DID MAKE IT FOREVER. LIKE MANY OF OUR GRANDPARENTS. BUT KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE UNSELFISH, GIVE, NOT JUST TAKE & MOST IMPORTANT LOVE. BUT WHAT YOU’LL GET IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE & THERE IS NO OTHER BETTER FEELING IN THE LONG RUN. BECAUSE ONE DAY YOU WILL NEED SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU AS SUCH. #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #counseling #couple #forever #barbarajeannerelationships

MANY COUPLES CAN’T EVEN LAST THE HONEYMOON PERIOD OF THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE WE EXPECT THE PERSON TO BE CLOSE TO WHAT WE THINK IS PERFECT TO WHAT WE WANT. GUYS DON’T WANT A GIRL THAT NAGS OR TELLS THEM WANT TO DO. AS WELL AS THEY WANT TO FEEL THE NEWNESS OF HOW THE RELATIONSHIP STARTED. WHEN THINGS START TO CHANGE MANY GUYS BAIL. AND GIRLS LOOK AT WHAT’S CLOSE TO PERFECT IN THEIR EYES & MANY DON’T KNOW HOW OR WHAT EXACTLY IT IS THAT KEEPS THE GUY. SO IF GUYS LOOK FOR A GIRL THAT BASICALLY DOES EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTS & HOW HE WANTS TO TREAT HER, WHEN YOU DO GET HER EVENTUALLY YOU’LL GET BORED & WILL WANT A GIRL MORE SIMULATING. AND THOSE GIRLS THAT SAY THEY AREN’T GOING TO SETTLE, YOU MAY BE WAITING FOR A VERY LONG TIME. SO WHAT IS IT THAT WILL HELP GET GUYS & GIRLS BACK ON THE SAME PAGE? LEARN. LOOK AT COUPLES THAT DID MAKE IT FOREVER. LIKE MANY OF OUR GRANDPARENTS. BUT KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE UNSELFISH, GIVE, NOT JUST TAKE & MOST IMPORTANT LOVE. BUT WHAT YOU’LL GET IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE & THERE IS NO OTHER BETTER FEELING IN THE LONG RUN. BECAUSE ONE DAY YOU WILL NEED SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU AS SUCH. #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #counseling #couple #forever #barbarajeannerelationships

A BODY IS  A BEAUTIFUL THING. BUT IT’S SACRED. ONLY GIVE TO THOSE WHO TRULY DESERVE IT.  THE ONES THAT YOU HAVE LOVE IN YOUR HEART FOR. THE ONE THAT YOU FEEL ABSOLUTELY LOVED WHEN IT’S OVER. NOT FEELING SHITTY WONDERING IF THIS PERSON YOU GAVE YOUR BODY TO WILL CALL YOU. USE YOUR BODY WISELY.  REMEMBER IT IS A TOOL. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness

A BODY IS A BEAUTIFUL THING. BUT IT’S SACRED. ONLY GIVE TO THOSE WHO TRULY DESERVE IT. THE ONES THAT YOU HAVE LOVE IN YOUR HEART FOR. THE ONE THAT YOU FEEL ABSOLUTELY LOVED WHEN IT’S OVER. NOT FEELING SHITTY WONDERING IF THIS PERSON YOU GAVE YOUR BODY TO WILL CALL YOU. USE YOUR BODY WISELY. REMEMBER IT IS A TOOL. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness

I LOOK BACK HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS. IT’S SAD HOW IT’S CHANGED FOR THE WORST. GUYS NO LONGER FEEL THE NEED TO DO THOSE THINGS THAT MEN WOULD DO TO MAKE A GIRL FALL. YET GIRLS ARE STILL CHASING GUYS THAT DO THE BARE MINIMAL. A TOKEN TEXT. MEN SEES THE GIRL WHEN IN NEED OF INTIMACY. GIRLS ACCEPT IT. AND AS LONG AS WE DO GUYS WILL DO NOTHING BUT TAKE. I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING EVERY GUY. BUT YOUNG GUYS TURN INTO MEN. AND IF THEY AREN’T TAUGHT BY THEIR MOMS OR THEIR  RELATIONSHIPS HOW WILL THEY KNOW. GIRLS YOU GOT TO ASK. YOU GOT TO SHOW. EVERYTHING IS LEARNED BY EXAMPLE. AND IF THE GUY CARES ENOUGH THEY WILL DO. A GUY SHOULD BE CALLING YOU. YOU SHOULD NOT BE A BOTHER. AND WHEN YOU DO CALL IT TAKES 2 SECONDS FOR THE GUY TO ANSWER & SAY I’M BUSY, LET ME GET BACK TO YOU. THIS IS ONE EXAMPLE THAT SHOWS WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GUY & A MAN. GIRLS PLEASE LOOK FOR MEN. THE ONES THAT WOULDN’T TREAT YOU ANYTHING LESS THEN THEM BEING A GENTLEMAN. AND GIRLS AS WELL, ACT LIKE LADIES. GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR GOOD WOMEN AS WELL. #loveyourself #love #girl #guy #relationship #counseling #advice #couple #barbarajeannerelationships

I LOOK BACK HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS. IT’S SAD HOW IT’S CHANGED FOR THE WORST. GUYS NO LONGER FEEL THE NEED TO DO THOSE THINGS THAT MEN WOULD DO TO MAKE A GIRL FALL. YET GIRLS ARE STILL CHASING GUYS THAT DO THE BARE MINIMAL. A TOKEN TEXT. MEN SEES THE GIRL WHEN IN NEED OF INTIMACY. GIRLS ACCEPT IT. AND AS LONG AS WE DO GUYS WILL DO NOTHING BUT TAKE. I AM BY NO MEANS SAYING EVERY GUY. BUT YOUNG GUYS TURN INTO MEN. AND IF THEY AREN’T TAUGHT BY THEIR MOMS OR THEIR RELATIONSHIPS HOW WILL THEY KNOW. GIRLS YOU GOT TO ASK. YOU GOT TO SHOW. EVERYTHING IS LEARNED BY EXAMPLE. AND IF THE GUY CARES ENOUGH THEY WILL DO. A GUY SHOULD BE CALLING YOU. YOU SHOULD NOT BE A BOTHER. AND WHEN YOU DO CALL IT TAKES 2 SECONDS FOR THE GUY TO ANSWER & SAY I’M BUSY, LET ME GET BACK TO YOU. THIS IS ONE EXAMPLE THAT SHOWS WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GUY & A MAN. GIRLS PLEASE LOOK FOR MEN. THE ONES THAT WOULDN’T TREAT YOU ANYTHING LESS THEN THEM BEING A GENTLEMAN. AND GIRLS AS WELL, ACT LIKE LADIES. GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR GOOD WOMEN AS WELL. #loveyourself #love #girl #guy #relationship #counseling #advice #couple #barbarajeannerelationships

MANY PEOPLE LOVE TOO HARD. WORK TO HARD TO SHOW A PERSON HOW MUCH THEY LOVE THEM. THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT KEEPING THE ONE PERSON HAPPY. WHY? BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY CAN’T LOSE THIS PERSON. THEY CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT REMEMBER YOU CAN’T LOSE SOMEONE THAT YOU DON’T HAVE…THEIR HEART. WHATEVER IT IS YOU THINK YOU’RE DOING. IT’S NOT A RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP NEEDS 2 PEOPLE. AT SOME POINT YOU WILL GET TIRED OF GIVING & WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE WHO WILL WANT TO DO IT FOR YOU. GO!!! THIS IS GOD’S INTERVENTION SAYING ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO WAIT FOR THIS BLESSING OR MIRACLE FROM ABOVE BECAUSE I AM TELLING YOU TO LET IT GO. IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE PUTTING LOVE & CARE INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP, DON’T STAY. WHY WOULD YOU? IT’S UNHEALTHY. DON’T FALL INTO THE PATTERN OF SHITTY RELATIONSHIPS WHERE YOU GET USED TO GETTING CRAPPED ON. YOU WON’T WIN. WHY? BECAUSE THIS PERSON IS ALWAYS RIGHT, CAN’T DO WRONG. YOU DON’T NEED TO SAY ANYTHING. THEY’LL MISS YOU WHEN THEY’RE IN NEED. THEN THEY SHOULD GET A MAID, BUTLER. HELL, WHOEVER, IT’S NOT YOUR PROBLEM ANYMORE. HOW AWESOME IS THAT! KNOW YOUR WORTH. PRICELESS! #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #guy #girl #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships

MANY PEOPLE LOVE TOO HARD. WORK TO HARD TO SHOW A PERSON HOW MUCH THEY LOVE THEM. THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT KEEPING THE ONE PERSON HAPPY. WHY? BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY CAN’T LOSE THIS PERSON. THEY CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT REMEMBER YOU CAN’T LOSE SOMEONE THAT YOU DON’T HAVE…THEIR HEART. WHATEVER IT IS YOU THINK YOU’RE DOING. IT’S NOT A RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP NEEDS 2 PEOPLE. AT SOME POINT YOU WILL GET TIRED OF GIVING & WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE WHO WILL WANT TO DO IT FOR YOU. GO!!! THIS IS GOD’S INTERVENTION SAYING ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO WAIT FOR THIS BLESSING OR MIRACLE FROM ABOVE BECAUSE I AM TELLING YOU TO LET IT GO. IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE PUTTING LOVE & CARE INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP, DON’T STAY. WHY WOULD YOU? IT’S UNHEALTHY. DON’T FALL INTO THE PATTERN OF SHITTY RELATIONSHIPS WHERE YOU GET USED TO GETTING CRAPPED ON. YOU WON’T WIN. WHY? BECAUSE THIS PERSON IS ALWAYS RIGHT, CAN’T DO WRONG. YOU DON’T NEED TO SAY ANYTHING. THEY’LL MISS YOU WHEN THEY’RE IN NEED. THEN THEY SHOULD GET A MAID, BUTLER. HELL, WHOEVER, IT’S NOT YOUR PROBLEM ANYMORE. HOW AWESOME IS THAT! KNOW YOUR WORTH. PRICELESS! #loveyourself #love #relationship #advice #guy #girl #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships

WHEN YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR ALL TO SOMEONE YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH & DIDN’T GIVE UP EVEN WHEN YOU SHOULD OF & KEPT LOVING THEM WHEN THERE WAS NO REASON TO. THEY MAY LEAVE. THEY MAY NOT WANT YOU. BUT ONE DAY WHEN EVERYONE DOES GIVE UP ON THEM, & THAT DAY WILL COME. WHY? BECAUSE THESE ARE USUALLY THE PEOPLE THAT GIVE LITTLE BUT FOR SOME REASON GET LOVED A LOT. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT TAKE & TAKE WITHOUT A THOUGHT. OH BUT ONE DAY THAT WILL CHANGE. LUCK RUNS OUT & THIS BEHAVIOR GETS OLD. THEY WILL THINK OF YOU THE PERSON THAT DIDN’T GIVE UP. WOULDN’T OF GIVEN UP. THEY LEFT & WANTED OUT NOT YOU. YOU LOVED THEM UNCONDITIONALLY. THEY WILL REMEMBER THIS. THEY WILL REMEMBER YOU, & MISS THAT LOVE. BUT YOU WILL HAVE CRIED, HEALED & HAVE MOVED ON WITHOUT THEM. KNOWING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE & HOW MUCH THEY DIDN’T. THEY’LL BE  JUST A THOUGHT, A MEMORY THAT WHAT WAS. PERIOD. DONE DEAL. FIND A LOVE THAT WILL ACTUALLY LOVE YOU, AS YOU LOVE THEM. FIND A LOVE THAT WANTS TO DO AS YOU DO FOR THEM. ANYTHING LESS IS UNACCEPTABLE. REMEMBER THAT!

WHEN YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR ALL TO SOMEONE YOU ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH & DIDN’T GIVE UP EVEN WHEN YOU SHOULD OF & KEPT LOVING THEM WHEN THERE WAS NO REASON TO. THEY MAY LEAVE. THEY MAY NOT WANT YOU. BUT ONE DAY WHEN EVERYONE DOES GIVE UP ON THEM, & THAT DAY WILL COME. WHY? BECAUSE THESE ARE USUALLY THE PEOPLE THAT GIVE LITTLE BUT FOR SOME REASON GET LOVED A LOT. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT TAKE & TAKE WITHOUT A THOUGHT. OH BUT ONE DAY THAT WILL CHANGE. LUCK RUNS OUT & THIS BEHAVIOR GETS OLD. THEY WILL THINK OF YOU THE PERSON THAT DIDN’T GIVE UP. WOULDN’T OF GIVEN UP. THEY LEFT & WANTED OUT NOT YOU. YOU LOVED THEM UNCONDITIONALLY. THEY WILL REMEMBER THIS. THEY WILL REMEMBER YOU, & MISS THAT LOVE. BUT YOU WILL HAVE CRIED, HEALED & HAVE MOVED ON WITHOUT THEM. KNOWING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE & HOW MUCH THEY DIDN’T. THEY’LL BE JUST A THOUGHT, A MEMORY THAT WHAT WAS. PERIOD. DONE DEAL. FIND A LOVE THAT WILL ACTUALLY LOVE YOU, AS YOU LOVE THEM. FIND A LOVE THAT WANTS TO DO AS YOU DO FOR THEM. ANYTHING LESS IS UNACCEPTABLE. REMEMBER THAT!

THERE ARE TO TYPES OF GUYS. THE ONES THAT ALWAYS SEEM TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP & THEN THOSE THAT ARE NOT. THIS TELLS YOU A LOT ABOUT A GUY FROM THE GET GO. NEXT IF A GUY GOES THROUGH GIRLS LIKE WATER HE MOST LIKELY WILL DO THE SAME TO YOU. DON’T GIVE YOUR HEART SO EASILY TO THIS TYPE OF GUY. IF A GUY TELLS YOU HOW HE BROKE HIS LAST GIRLS HEART, HE’LL PROBABLY DO THE SAME TO YOU. HOW HE ACT BEFORE YOU HE’LL ACT WITH & TO YOU. GALS WHEN YOU MEET A GUY IF HE’S INCONSISTENT HE MOST LIKELY WILL STAY THAT WAY. SO WITH ALL THAT BEING SAID YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD KIND LOVING PERSON IS. WELL GIRLS THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT WHEN CHOOSING A GUY. THAT SAYING “GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST” IS SO WRONG. WE SHOULD WANT THE GOOD GUY. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A LADY THAT IS LOVED.  BREAK THE CHAIN BAD BOY BREAKS HEARTS & GOOD GUYS WILL GIVE YOU A LIFE OF HAPPINESS. YOUR CHOICE. PICK WISELY. #love #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationship #advice #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships

THERE ARE TO TYPES OF GUYS. THE ONES THAT ALWAYS SEEM TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP & THEN THOSE THAT ARE NOT. THIS TELLS YOU A LOT ABOUT A GUY FROM THE GET GO. NEXT IF A GUY GOES THROUGH GIRLS LIKE WATER HE MOST LIKELY WILL DO THE SAME TO YOU. DON’T GIVE YOUR HEART SO EASILY TO THIS TYPE OF GUY. IF A GUY TELLS YOU HOW HE BROKE HIS LAST GIRLS HEART, HE’LL PROBABLY DO THE SAME TO YOU. HOW HE ACT BEFORE YOU HE’LL ACT WITH & TO YOU. GALS WHEN YOU MEET A GUY IF HE’S INCONSISTENT HE MOST LIKELY WILL STAY THAT WAY. SO WITH ALL THAT BEING SAID YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD KIND LOVING PERSON IS. WELL GIRLS THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT WHEN CHOOSING A GUY. THAT SAYING “GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST” IS SO WRONG. WE SHOULD WANT THE GOOD GUY. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A LADY THAT IS LOVED. BREAK THE CHAIN BAD BOY BREAKS HEARTS & GOOD GUYS WILL GIVE YOU A LIFE OF HAPPINESS. YOUR CHOICE. PICK WISELY. #love #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationship #advice #counseling #barbarajeannerelationships