Barbara Jeanne Relationship Services
I HAVE TO COME CLEAN & BE HONEST. I HAVE BEEN RESEARCHING THE SUBJECT OF LOVE SINCE I WAS A CHILD. THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL THEN COLLEGE. I HAVE TO SAY THIS STRAIGHT UP. WHEN WOMEN FALL WE FALL HARD. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S NEW & IN THE BEGINNING. WE DEVOTE OUR TIME THINKING ABOUT THIS PERSON. THINKING OF WAYS TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. WE WILL GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH FOR THIS GUY. BUT SEE NOW THE GUY AT THIS POINT IS DOING & SAYING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS. HE MAY MEAN THEM BUT IN THE LONG RUN HE CAN’T PULL IT OFF. EITHER FEELING HE WENT TO FAST, IN TOO DEEP. SO THE GUY BACKS OFF & IT MAKES THE GIRL FEEL SHITTY A BIT HEART BROKEN. THE GUY CALLS LESS, TEXT LESS, SOMETIMES YOU DON’T EVEN ANSWER YOUR PHONE & WE KNOW YOU HAVE IT ON YOU. COME ON. GIRLS TRY HARDER TO MAKE IT THE WAY IT WAS.  IF THEY REALLY LIKE YOU THEY WILL GIVE IT ALL THEY CAN GIVE. BUT ALL A GUY CAN GIVE IS A CALL OR TEXT WHEN YOU CROSS THEIR MIND. I TRULY BELIEVE SOME MEN DON’T GIVE AS THEY SHOULD IN A RELATIONSHIP. SO FINALLY THE GIRL GIVES UP AFTER MANY TEARS.THEN THE GUY IS THE ONE THAT IS HEART BROKEN.  BUT THE THING IS THIS MEN STAY STUCK. RUINED & NOW THEY ARE UNHEALTHY FOR ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. ONCE GIRLS MOVE ON. THEY MAY HAVE BAGGAGE BUT WHEN THEY FALL. THEY WILL FALL JUST AS HARD. AND THE EX IS STILL WONDERING & HURTING. SO WE NEED TO GET BACK ON THE SAME PAGE & REMEMBER YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE. IF YOU DON’T GIVE EVENTUALLY IT DIES. AND GUYS I KNOW GIRLS HAVE DIFFERENT ISSUES. BUT AS A START IF YOU SHOW THEM LOVE NOT FOR SEX BUT BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM. 90% OF THESE GIRLS WILL GIVE YOU THE BEST LOVIN YOU EVER DID HAVE.  #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #picoftheday #happines #barbarajeannerelationships

I HAVE TO COME CLEAN & BE HONEST. I HAVE BEEN RESEARCHING THE SUBJECT OF LOVE SINCE I WAS A CHILD. THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL THEN COLLEGE. I HAVE TO SAY THIS STRAIGHT UP. WHEN WOMEN FALL WE FALL HARD. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S NEW & IN THE BEGINNING. WE DEVOTE OUR TIME THINKING ABOUT THIS PERSON. THINKING OF WAYS TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. WE WILL GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH FOR THIS GUY. BUT SEE NOW THE GUY AT THIS POINT IS DOING & SAYING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS. HE MAY MEAN THEM BUT IN THE LONG RUN HE CAN’T PULL IT OFF. EITHER FEELING HE WENT TO FAST, IN TOO DEEP. SO THE GUY BACKS OFF & IT MAKES THE GIRL FEEL SHITTY A BIT HEART BROKEN. THE GUY CALLS LESS, TEXT LESS, SOMETIMES YOU DON’T EVEN ANSWER YOUR PHONE & WE KNOW YOU HAVE IT ON YOU. COME ON. GIRLS TRY HARDER TO MAKE IT THE WAY IT WAS. IF THEY REALLY LIKE YOU THEY WILL GIVE IT ALL THEY CAN GIVE. BUT ALL A GUY CAN GIVE IS A CALL OR TEXT WHEN YOU CROSS THEIR MIND. I TRULY BELIEVE SOME MEN DON’T GIVE AS THEY SHOULD IN A RELATIONSHIP. SO FINALLY THE GIRL GIVES UP AFTER MANY TEARS.THEN THE GUY IS THE ONE THAT IS HEART BROKEN. BUT THE THING IS THIS MEN STAY STUCK. RUINED & NOW THEY ARE UNHEALTHY FOR ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. ONCE GIRLS MOVE ON. THEY MAY HAVE BAGGAGE BUT WHEN THEY FALL. THEY WILL FALL JUST AS HARD. AND THE EX IS STILL WONDERING & HURTING. SO WE NEED TO GET BACK ON THE SAME PAGE & REMEMBER YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE. IF YOU DON’T GIVE EVENTUALLY IT DIES. AND GUYS I KNOW GIRLS HAVE DIFFERENT ISSUES. BUT AS A START IF YOU SHOW THEM LOVE NOT FOR SEX BUT BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM. 90% OF THESE GIRLS WILL GIVE YOU THE BEST LOVIN YOU EVER DID HAVE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #picoftheday #happines #barbarajeannerelationships

I AM NOT NECESSARILY TALKING ABOUT THE SONG SCRUB’S WHERE TLC SAY “I DON’T WANT SCRUB” NO CAR, NO JOB &LIVING AT HOME WITH YOUR MAMA. BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY WHEN THE GUY ISN’T DOING RIGHT BY YOU. YET GIRLS SPREAD THEIR LEGS OPEN SO EASILY & GIVE THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU HAVE. YOU! IF GIRLS STOOD BY AS A WHOLE & MADE  MEN KNOW THAT YOU WON’T ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT GOOD, GREAT AWESOME. BEFORE THEY GET THE GOODS. THEY WOULD TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD BE TREATED. WITH WORTH & VALUE. #love #loveyourself #guys #girls #you #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships

I AM NOT NECESSARILY TALKING ABOUT THE SONG SCRUB’S WHERE TLC SAY “I DON’T WANT SCRUB” NO CAR, NO JOB &LIVING AT HOME WITH YOUR MAMA. BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY WHEN THE GUY ISN’T DOING RIGHT BY YOU. YET GIRLS SPREAD THEIR LEGS OPEN SO EASILY & GIVE THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU HAVE. YOU! IF GIRLS STOOD BY AS A WHOLE & MADE MEN KNOW THAT YOU WON’T ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT GOOD, GREAT AWESOME. BEFORE THEY GET THE GOODS. THEY WOULD TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD BE TREATED. WITH WORTH & VALUE. #love #loveyourself #guys #girls #you #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships

I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO SAY HAPPY EASTER. REMEMBER AS YOU IDOLIZE & SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME ON NONSENSE. DON’T FORGET THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE TO SPEND TIME WITH IS GOD. NOT ONLY WHEN IN NEED BUT EVERY DAY.  LOTS OF LOVE. YOU ARE ALL ALWAYS IN MY PRAYERS.  GOD BLESS♥

I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO SAY HAPPY EASTER. REMEMBER AS YOU IDOLIZE & SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME ON NONSENSE. DON’T FORGET THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE TO SPEND TIME WITH IS GOD. NOT ONLY WHEN IN NEED BUT EVERY DAY. LOTS OF LOVE. YOU ARE ALL ALWAYS IN MY PRAYERS. GOD BLESS♥

We all have those people that have broken our hearts & have left us n pieces. What’s worse so many times without care. They may pretend they care but as they are walking away they are most likely having a feeling of relief & freedom. While we sit there broken barely able to pick ourselves up. Yes we may cry. Yes we might think we can live without them. But in reality we do. And what we have to realize is that we don’t want someone who doesn’t want us.That could walk away so easily & be selfish enough to call us if they become weak, bored or might want a little booty. We have to pick ourselves up & not settle for anyone other than someone that truly is sure they want us. Settling isn’t an option nor are we a choice. Just to make that absolutely clear. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #closure #guy #girl #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships

We all have those people that have broken our hearts & have left us n pieces. What’s worse so many times without care. They may pretend they care but as they are walking away they are most likely having a feeling of relief & freedom. While we sit there broken barely able to pick ourselves up. Yes we may cry. Yes we might think we can live without them. But in reality we do. And what we have to realize is that we don’t want someone who doesn’t want us.That could walk away so easily & be selfish enough to call us if they become weak, bored or might want a little booty. We have to pick ourselves up & not settle for anyone other than someone that truly is sure they want us. Settling isn’t an option nor are we a choice. Just to make that absolutely clear. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #closure #guy #girl #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships