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WE FALL IN LOVE.  GUYS FALL & WHEN IT BECOMES A ROUTINE THEY SLACK. THEY LIKE TO PLAY SO WHATEVER IT IS THAT KEEPS THEM PREOCCUPIED THAT’S WHERE THEY FOCUS. SPORTS,  VIDEO GAMES, FRIENDS. NOW GIRLS WHEN WE LOVE. WE LOVE MORE BY THE MINUTE WE DON’T KNOW WHEN TO LET GO. WE HOLD, CAN’T LET GO  & CAN’T ACCEPT NOT TO BE WITH THIS PERSON WHO WE WANT, LOVE CAN’T SEE OURSELVES WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT IF YOU DON’T LET GO YOU ARE GOING TO BE DRAG THROUGH SHIT THAT WILL BRUISE YOUR MIND HEART & SOUL. RIP YOU TO SHREDS. NO ONE IS WORTH THAT. IF IT’S HAPPENING IT’S BECAUSE THE PERSON DRAGGING YOU DOESN’T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU. SO GET UP, DUST YOURSELF OFF. TURN AROUND ONCE “SAY “YOU F**CKING ASSWHOLE” & WALK AWAY.  WITH YOUR CHIN UP. BECAUSE WHAT YOU DID WAS HARD AS HELL. BUT KEEP WALKING IT GETS BETTER. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #love #care #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever

WE FALL IN LOVE. GUYS FALL & WHEN IT BECOMES A ROUTINE THEY SLACK. THEY LIKE TO PLAY SO WHATEVER IT IS THAT KEEPS THEM PREOCCUPIED THAT’S WHERE THEY FOCUS. SPORTS, VIDEO GAMES, FRIENDS. NOW GIRLS WHEN WE LOVE. WE LOVE MORE BY THE MINUTE WE DON’T KNOW WHEN TO LET GO. WE HOLD, CAN’T LET GO & CAN’T ACCEPT NOT TO BE WITH THIS PERSON WHO WE WANT, LOVE CAN’T SEE OURSELVES WITHOUT THIS PERSON. BUT IF YOU DON’T LET GO YOU ARE GOING TO BE DRAG THROUGH SHIT THAT WILL BRUISE YOUR MIND HEART & SOUL. RIP YOU TO SHREDS. NO ONE IS WORTH THAT. IF IT’S HAPPENING IT’S BECAUSE THE PERSON DRAGGING YOU DOESN’T GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU. SO GET UP, DUST YOURSELF OFF. TURN AROUND ONCE “SAY “YOU F**CKING ASSWHOLE” & WALK AWAY. WITH YOUR CHIN UP. BECAUSE WHAT YOU DID WAS HARD AS HELL. BUT KEEP WALKING IT GETS BETTER. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #love #care #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever

MANY PEOPLE DON’T KNOW HOW TO CARRY A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. HOW? BE ABLE TO CARRY A CONVERSATION THIS CREATES THE WANT TO TALK TO YOU. HAVE A FUN KICK ASS TIME WHEN YOU’RE TOGETHER. THIS WILL KEEP THEM WANTING TO SEE YOU. KNOW HOW TO USE YOUR SEXUALITY TO CREATE THE DESIRE TO ENTICE THEM TO WANT YOUR BODY.THIS WELL MAKE THEM GRAVE YOU. HAVE SUBSTANCE & YOUR OWN HOBBIES. DON’T ASK WHERE YOU GOING, WHAT YOU’RE DOING, WHO YOU’RE WITH, THAT’S ANNOYING. DON’T BE ALL UP IN THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS. THE MORE YOU’RE COOL ABOUT THINGS THE MORE THEY’LL WANT TO SHARE THEIR LIFE. BE THEIR FRIEND. THEIR BEST FRIEND & IT WILL GIVE THEM THE WANT TO HAVE YOU HAS THIER PARTNER. THE WANT IS VERY IMPORTANT. HOW IMPORTANT?  WELL EITHER THEY WANT YOU OR NOT. SEE HOW IMPORTANT IT IS. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship

MANY PEOPLE DON’T KNOW HOW TO CARRY A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. HOW? BE ABLE TO CARRY A CONVERSATION THIS CREATES THE WANT TO TALK TO YOU. HAVE A FUN KICK ASS TIME WHEN YOU’RE TOGETHER. THIS WILL KEEP THEM WANTING TO SEE YOU. KNOW HOW TO USE YOUR SEXUALITY TO CREATE THE DESIRE TO ENTICE THEM TO WANT YOUR BODY.THIS WELL MAKE THEM GRAVE YOU. HAVE SUBSTANCE & YOUR OWN HOBBIES. DON’T ASK WHERE YOU GOING, WHAT YOU’RE DOING, WHO YOU’RE WITH, THAT’S ANNOYING. DON’T BE ALL UP IN THEIR PERSONAL BUSINESS. THE MORE YOU’RE COOL ABOUT THINGS THE MORE THEY’LL WANT TO SHARE THEIR LIFE. BE THEIR FRIEND. THEIR BEST FRIEND & IT WILL GIVE THEM THE WANT TO HAVE YOU HAS THIER PARTNER. THE WANT IS VERY IMPORTANT. HOW IMPORTANT? WELL EITHER THEY WANT YOU OR NOT. SEE HOW IMPORTANT IT IS. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #relationship

MANY RELATIONSHIPS NOW A DAYS ARE THESE HALF ASS, DON’T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. IT’S MORE LIKE 2 PEOPLE WHO COME TOGETHER, HOOK UP & GO ON THIER  WAY.I HAVE TO SAY IT’S SOME SORT OF RELATIONSHIP BUT NOT A HEALTHY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. MANY TIMES YOU CAN’T DEPEND ON THIS PERSON TO BE THERE FOR YOU. MOST TIMES THESE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THE GIRL GETS EMOTIONALLY HOOKED & THE GUYS MOVES ON TO A GIRL & GET INTO A MORE SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. SO GIRLS IF YOU FEEL CARE, LOVE OR ARE STALKING THIS PERSON’S PAGES ONLINE BUT FEEL FUNNY TO PICK UP THE PHONE OR TEXT & WORSE OFF YOU HAVE TEXTED & THEY HAVE NOT ANSWERED. DON’T GIVE YOUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU & YOUR VAGINA” . DON’T BE USED FOR SEX & WHEN THEY ARE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEY GO WITH ANOTHER. THEN YOU’LL FEEL DEEPLY CRUSHED & USED.

MANY RELATIONSHIPS NOW A DAYS ARE THESE HALF ASS, DON’T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. IT’S MORE LIKE 2 PEOPLE WHO COME TOGETHER, HOOK UP & GO ON THIER WAY.I HAVE TO SAY IT’S SOME SORT OF RELATIONSHIP BUT NOT A HEALTHY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. MANY TIMES YOU CAN’T DEPEND ON THIS PERSON TO BE THERE FOR YOU. MOST TIMES THESE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THE GIRL GETS EMOTIONALLY HOOKED & THE GUYS MOVES ON TO A GIRL & GET INTO A MORE SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. SO GIRLS IF YOU FEEL CARE, LOVE OR ARE STALKING THIS PERSON’S PAGES ONLINE BUT FEEL FUNNY TO PICK UP THE PHONE OR TEXT & WORSE OFF YOU HAVE TEXTED & THEY HAVE NOT ANSWERED. DON’T GIVE YOUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU & YOUR VAGINA” . DON’T BE USED FOR SEX & WHEN THEY ARE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEY GO WITH ANOTHER. THEN YOU’LL FEEL DEEPLY CRUSHED & USED.

PEOPLE ASK ME “WHEN WILL I STOP LOVING HIM (OR HER) IT FEELS LIKE IT’S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. I SAY “OH BUT IT WILL”. THEY SAY BUT WHEN”. I SAY “I DON’T KNOW WHEN BUT IT WILL HAPPEN & YOU’LL KNOW”. SO MANY PEOPLE LOVE THE WRONG PERSON. BUT ONCE YOU HAVE FALLEN IT’S SO HARD TO GET OUT. GIRLS FALL SO HARD. WE BELIEVE, WE PUT HOPE IN THIS PERSON WHO WE HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR. WE’D GIVE EVERYTHING & ANYTHING. WE CRY, WE GET PUT IN AWKWARD SHITTY SITUATION & WE EVEN LOOK LIKE FOOLS. BUT 99% OF THE TIME WHEN A WOMEN IS DONE SHE’S DONE. THAT’S THE DIFFERENCE WITH GUYS. GUYS GIVE THEN GET LAZY, BORED & NOT ONLY UNTIL THEIR PARTNER LEAVES DO THEY FEEL HEARTBROKEN. GEEZ THAT’S WHAT IT TAKES? BUT WHAT HAPPENED IF WE COULD GET IN SYNC? COULD WE PULL A RELATIONSHIP OFF, THE FOREVER & ALWAYS?

PEOPLE ASK ME “WHEN WILL I STOP LOVING HIM (OR HER) IT FEELS LIKE IT’S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. I SAY “OH BUT IT WILL”. THEY SAY BUT WHEN”. I SAY “I DON’T KNOW WHEN BUT IT WILL HAPPEN & YOU’LL KNOW”. SO MANY PEOPLE LOVE THE WRONG PERSON. BUT ONCE YOU HAVE FALLEN IT’S SO HARD TO GET OUT. GIRLS FALL SO HARD. WE BELIEVE, WE PUT HOPE IN THIS PERSON WHO WE HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR. WE’D GIVE EVERYTHING & ANYTHING. WE CRY, WE GET PUT IN AWKWARD SHITTY SITUATION & WE EVEN LOOK LIKE FOOLS. BUT 99% OF THE TIME WHEN A WOMEN IS DONE SHE’S DONE. THAT’S THE DIFFERENCE WITH GUYS. GUYS GIVE THEN GET LAZY, BORED & NOT ONLY UNTIL THEIR PARTNER LEAVES DO THEY FEEL HEARTBROKEN. GEEZ THAT’S WHAT IT TAKES? BUT WHAT HAPPENED IF WE COULD GET IN SYNC? COULD WE PULL A RELATIONSHIP OFF, THE FOREVER & ALWAYS?

DID YOU EVER REALIZE THAT THE PEOPLE YOU REALLY LIKE YOU DO SUMMERSAULTS TRYING TO KEEP THEM HAPPY. WE DON’T EVEN KNOW IF THEY WOULD ACCEPT US FOR WHO WE ARE BECAUSE WE DON’T EVEN WANT TO TAKE THAT CHANGE. TO LET THEM SEE US MESSY, UNRAVELLED. I HAD THIS GUY THAT I MET ABOUT 3 MONTHS BEFORE I HAD MY BRAIN ANEURYSM. HE WAS LITERALLY IN BED WITH ME AT THE HOSPITAL FOR A FULL MONTH. AS TIME WENT ON I KNOW HE CARED BUT NOT LIKE ONE SHOULD. HE LOVE THE HAPPY ME.THAT DRESSED TO IMPRESS &  MADE HIM LAUGH ME. OH  & LETS NOT FORGET THE AWESOME SEX THAT HE SAID IT WAS THE BEST SEX HE EVER HAD. BUT WHEN I NEEDED HELP CARRYING THE AIR CONDITIONER I BOUGHT. HELPING ME CARRY & PUT TOGETHER MY FUTON, NOT THERE. 28 TIMES IN THE HOSPITAL, 8 SURGERIES I CAN COUNT THE TIMES HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL. I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 6 YEARS. WHAT A WASTE.  WHY AM I TELLING YOU SOMETHING SO INTIMATE. LOVE IS MESSY, HARD & AWESOME BUT IN YOUR HEART YOU ALWAYS KNOW AT SOME POINT IF  IT’S RIGHT OR NOT. WHEN YOU KNOW IT’S RIGHT GIVE IT YOUR ALL & HAVE A BALL. WHEN YOU KNOW IT’S WRONG LET IT GO. EVENTUALLY IT WILL COME TO AN END & ALL YOU’LL HAVE IS HEARTACHE. STOP WASTING TIME. WE ALL SAY WE HAVE NOTHING BUT TIME. BUT WE DON’T KNOW THAT. WE DO KNOW THAT WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. LIVE TO BE LOVE NOT CHASING, HEARTBROKEN OR IN A FUCKED UP MESS. BE HAPPY.  FIND THAT PERSON THAT LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY & LOVE. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #love #care #kiss #you #heartbroken #barbarajeannerelationships

DID YOU EVER REALIZE THAT THE PEOPLE YOU REALLY LIKE YOU DO SUMMERSAULTS TRYING TO KEEP THEM HAPPY. WE DON’T EVEN KNOW IF THEY WOULD ACCEPT US FOR WHO WE ARE BECAUSE WE DON’T EVEN WANT TO TAKE THAT CHANGE. TO LET THEM SEE US MESSY, UNRAVELLED. I HAD THIS GUY THAT I MET ABOUT 3 MONTHS BEFORE I HAD MY BRAIN ANEURYSM. HE WAS LITERALLY IN BED WITH ME AT THE HOSPITAL FOR A FULL MONTH. AS TIME WENT ON I KNOW HE CARED BUT NOT LIKE ONE SHOULD. HE LOVE THE HAPPY ME.THAT DRESSED TO IMPRESS & MADE HIM LAUGH ME. OH & LETS NOT FORGET THE AWESOME SEX THAT HE SAID IT WAS THE BEST SEX HE EVER HAD. BUT WHEN I NEEDED HELP CARRYING THE AIR CONDITIONER I BOUGHT. HELPING ME CARRY & PUT TOGETHER MY FUTON, NOT THERE. 28 TIMES IN THE HOSPITAL, 8 SURGERIES I CAN COUNT THE TIMES HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL. I STAYED WITH HIM FOR 6 YEARS. WHAT A WASTE. WHY AM I TELLING YOU SOMETHING SO INTIMATE. LOVE IS MESSY, HARD & AWESOME BUT IN YOUR HEART YOU ALWAYS KNOW AT SOME POINT IF IT’S RIGHT OR NOT. WHEN YOU KNOW IT’S RIGHT GIVE IT YOUR ALL & HAVE A BALL. WHEN YOU KNOW IT’S WRONG LET IT GO. EVENTUALLY IT WILL COME TO AN END & ALL YOU’LL HAVE IS HEARTACHE. STOP WASTING TIME. WE ALL SAY WE HAVE NOTHING BUT TIME. BUT WE DON’T KNOW THAT. WE DO KNOW THAT WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE. LIVE TO BE LOVE NOT CHASING, HEARTBROKEN OR IN A FUCKED UP MESS. BE HAPPY. FIND THAT PERSON THAT LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY & LOVE. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #love #care #kiss #you #heartbroken #barbarajeannerelationships

WHY IS THERE ALWAYS THAT ONE PERSON THAT WE LOVE. NOT THAT THEY EVEN DESERVE ALL OUR LOVE. MOST TIMES THESE ARE THE ONE’S MOST LIKELY DON’T DERSEVE ANYTHING. BUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON WE CAN’T STOP LOVING THEM. ALMOST AS IF THEY ARE A MAGNET. THAT WE CAN’T STAY AWAY FROM. SO WHAT DO WE DO LOVE THEM? WAIT TO SEE IF THEY COME AROUND?  HELL NO. WHAT DID YOU THINK I WAS GOING TO TELL YOU TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T LOVE YOU? NOW DOESN’T THAT SOUND STUPID. WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU LOVE A PERSON WHO DOESN’T LOVE YOU. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #sadness

WHY IS THERE ALWAYS THAT ONE PERSON THAT WE LOVE. NOT THAT THEY EVEN DESERVE ALL OUR LOVE. MOST TIMES THESE ARE THE ONE’S MOST LIKELY DON’T DERSEVE ANYTHING. BUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON WE CAN’T STOP LOVING THEM. ALMOST AS IF THEY ARE A MAGNET. THAT WE CAN’T STAY AWAY FROM. SO WHAT DO WE DO LOVE THEM? WAIT TO SEE IF THEY COME AROUND? HELL NO. WHAT DID YOU THINK I WAS GOING TO TELL YOU TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T LOVE YOU? NOW DOESN’T THAT SOUND STUPID. WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU LOVE A PERSON WHO DOESN’T LOVE YOU. #loveyourself #redflags #hurt #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #sadness

TODAY’S DATING IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN YEARS PRIOR. IT WAS EASIER WHEN YOU WOULD SEE SOMEONE THAT YOU LIKED. IT WAS FACE TO FACE SO THERE WAS NO HIDING WHO YOU WERE, WHAT YOU LOOKED LIKE & YOUR REAL PERSONALITY.  NOT THE BRAVERY SOME SEEM TO HAVE BEHIND THE COMPUTER. TODAY MANY PEOPLE SEEM TO HAVE & WANT MORE THAN ONE. THEY WILL SAY HI CUTIE WHEN AM I GOING TO MEET YOU? MANY TIMES THEY ARE SAYING THOSE SAME EXACT WORDS TO MANY OTHERS NOT EVEN HAVING ANY INTENTIONS OF EVEN MEETING. SO YOU DO MEET & YOU TAKE A LIKING TO ONE ANOTHER. BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN WHEN THING WERE GOING GREAT. WELL AT LEAST YOU THOUGHT SO. YOU AREN’T HEARING FROM YOUR NEW ROMANTIC FRIEND WITH BENEFITS. YOU GET THIS FEELING THEY MIGHT BE HOOKING UP WITH OTHERS. EWH RIGHT!  SO WHAT DO YOU DO NOW? WELL LET’S WINED THIS BACK A BIT. FIRST DON’T GIVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH THIS PERSON IF YOU CARE FOR. ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR FIRST MEETING. SECOND NEVER EVER BECOME PLAN B. IF YOU SETTLE SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE YOU WILL GET HURT. SO SPEAK UP. IF THEY’RE DODGING YOUR CALLS & TEXT LET IT GO. THAT’S SO RUDE OF THEM. IT MAKES ME WANT TO SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF THEM. KNOW YOUR WORTH… PLAN A & DON’T ACCEPT OR GET USED TO ANYTHING LESS. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #happiness #romantic # guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #love #barbarajeannerelationships

TODAY’S DATING IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN YEARS PRIOR. IT WAS EASIER WHEN YOU WOULD SEE SOMEONE THAT YOU LIKED. IT WAS FACE TO FACE SO THERE WAS NO HIDING WHO YOU WERE, WHAT YOU LOOKED LIKE & YOUR REAL PERSONALITY. NOT THE BRAVERY SOME SEEM TO HAVE BEHIND THE COMPUTER. TODAY MANY PEOPLE SEEM TO HAVE & WANT MORE THAN ONE. THEY WILL SAY HI CUTIE WHEN AM I GOING TO MEET YOU? MANY TIMES THEY ARE SAYING THOSE SAME EXACT WORDS TO MANY OTHERS NOT EVEN HAVING ANY INTENTIONS OF EVEN MEETING. SO YOU DO MEET & YOU TAKE A LIKING TO ONE ANOTHER. BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN WHEN THING WERE GOING GREAT. WELL AT LEAST YOU THOUGHT SO. YOU AREN’T HEARING FROM YOUR NEW ROMANTIC FRIEND WITH BENEFITS. YOU GET THIS FEELING THEY MIGHT BE HOOKING UP WITH OTHERS. EWH RIGHT! SO WHAT DO YOU DO NOW? WELL LET’S WINED THIS BACK A BIT. FIRST DON’T GIVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH THIS PERSON IF YOU CARE FOR. ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR FIRST MEETING. SECOND NEVER EVER BECOME PLAN B. IF YOU SETTLE SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE YOU WILL GET HURT. SO SPEAK UP. IF THEY’RE DODGING YOUR CALLS & TEXT LET IT GO. THAT’S SO RUDE OF THEM. IT MAKES ME WANT TO SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF THEM. KNOW YOUR WORTH… PLAN A & DON’T ACCEPT OR GET USED TO ANYTHING LESS. #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #happiness #romantic # guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #love #barbarajeannerelationships

MEN ARE VERY VISUAL,  THAT IS WHAT FIRST CATCHES THEIR EYE. SECOND IS A GOOD PERSONALITY.  THEY ACTUALLY WANT A BEST FRIEND THAT THEY CAN HAVE FUN WITH & NOT JUDGE THEM. WHEN YOU ENTER YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP OR THE ONE YOU’RE IN GIVE IT A SHOT. P.S. ANOTHER TIP; WHEN YOU HAVE A GOOD KIND PERSONALITY MAKES YOU APPEALING & MORE BEAUTIFUL TO A GUY. SO IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT THE LOOKS WHEN A GUY FALLS. OH & HAVING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER HELPS. NOT COMPLETELY NECESSARY,  BUT CONFIDENT THAT YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IS A TURN ON. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #love #care

MEN ARE VERY VISUAL, THAT IS WHAT FIRST CATCHES THEIR EYE. SECOND IS A GOOD PERSONALITY. THEY ACTUALLY WANT A BEST FRIEND THAT THEY CAN HAVE FUN WITH & NOT JUDGE THEM. WHEN YOU ENTER YOUR NEXT RELATIONSHIP OR THE ONE YOU’RE IN GIVE IT A SHOT. P.S. ANOTHER TIP; WHEN YOU HAVE A GOOD KIND PERSONALITY MAKES YOU APPEALING & MORE BEAUTIFUL TO A GUY. SO IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT THE LOOKS WHEN A GUY FALLS. OH & HAVING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER HELPS. NOT COMPLETELY NECESSARY, BUT CONFIDENT THAT YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IS A TURN ON. #loveyourself #life #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #love #care